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One of the most interesting things about my job as a pastor and counselor is that people may come to me with their deepest secrets, and I have a responsibility to keep those secrets while helping them overcome their struggles and avoid the consequences of their mistakes. I am not there to cover up their sins, but to assist them in changing their ways and protecting them from potential public harm and disgrace.
For example, several years ago, a woman contacted me through Facebook and confessed that she was a lesbian who had more than ten girlfriends. One of her ex-girlfriends had just committed suicide, and she was afraid of the repercussions of her lifestyle. She came to me for help because she was struggling with the guilt and pain of the situation. There were other details that she shared with me, which I cannot disclose publicly.
In another instance, a woman reached out to me, admitting that she had cheated on her husband and needed assistance.
I share these stories to emphasize that encountering people and their secret sins can help us appreciate why God provides grace to sinners and why we are called to the ministry of reconciliation.
People face difficult issues and challenges, and many are psychologically broken and emotionally crushed. Their errors or the consequences of their choices haunt them, and they have no one to turn to. Many carry the heavy burden of guilt and pain and fear public shame and condemnation, which can lead to destructive behaviors such as suicide and alcoholism.
We should always be on the lookout for one another, especially those who are struggling. We must be careful when discussing other people’s private issues, even when they are guilty. Most importantly, we should extend love and care to one another, especially to those who are feeling guilty and condemned. Jesus instructed us to love one another as he loved us, and this is how we can show that we are his disciples.
Abeiku Okai
Anathallo Chapel Int.
(+233) 0249287855