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Mrs. Victoria Ata-Peters on Relationships: Why Trust and Clear Boundaries Matter
In a recent episode of the BIC Abeiku Okai Show (GHANA WONSOM) on Ideal 96.7 FM, Mrs. Victoria Ata-Peters offered valuable insights on a common relationship dilemma: maintaining communication with ex-partners. Her candid advice struck a chord with many listeners, as she firmly stated that a woman who frequently chats with her ex-boyfriend, especially late at night, is not acting in the best interest of her current relationship. For Mrs. Ata-Peters, an “ex” is just that—expired—and should remain in the past.
Mrs. Ata-Peters advised that if a man feels uneasy about his partner’s ongoing communication with an ex, he should address the issue by seeking counsel from trusted authorities, such as pastors, elders, or family members. These steps are essential in navigating the situation properly. However, if after these efforts, the behavior does not change, she strongly suggested that the man should consider whether the relationship is worth continuing.
Furthermore, Mrs. Ata-Peters emphasized the importance of being prayerful in any relationship. Trust and honesty are the bedrock of a strong partnership, and if something is being concealed from your partner, it’s crucial to address it immediately. For her, transparency and spiritual guidance are not just important; they are vital in building a healthy, lasting relationship.
Mrs. Ata-Peters’ advice resonates with those who understand that relationships are complex and require constant nurturing. Her message was clear: if you truly love someone, be prayerful, be honest, and ensure that your past relationships do not interfere with your present one.
As she concluded, Mrs. Ata-Peters reminded listeners that marriage is not a race. Couples should seek spiritual guidance from their pastor early on to lay a solid foundation for their future together. The traditional customs, such as “knocking,” are just the beginning of the journey, and both partners should be committed to seeing it through to the end.
By Bohyeba Richard