SIX THINGS EVERY HUSBAND MUST GIVE HIS WIFE

SIX THINGS EVERY HUSBAND MUST GIVE HIS WIFE.

Counselove Abeiku Okai

1. LOVE

The primary need of every woman is to love and be loved. Women are not only recipients of love but, more importantly, givers of love. However, their need for love stems from a desire for assurance and trust. Loving your wife puts her in the safest hands to trust and the most serene bosom to lean upon.

Meanwhile, women define love as care. Therefore, by loving her, show her how much you care through honest, positive, and soothing words, and trustworthy actions. You should also be fair and firm to assure her of your ability to provide, protect, and direct.

2. TIME AND ATTENTION

Every wife wants her husband’s full attention—being present for communication and intimacy, listening to her, answering calls, addressing questions and issues, and sharing moments of thoughts and humour.

While you can’t always be physically present due to work and other commitments, you can still give her assurance of your care and attention even in your absence. For beyond the physical, she seeks emotional connection and genuine affection.

3. RESPECT AND VALUE

One thing many women struggle with is self-image. Regardless of how you hurt a woman, it affects her self-worth. Making her feel unloved or insignificant is the worst punishment. Therefore, affirm and honour your wife, enhancing her value, beauty, and quality through your actions and words. Show gratitude for her efforts and sacrifices, publicly and privately acknowledging and praising her without reservation.

4. ANOTHER CHANCE

Women, like men, make mistakes—often emotionally driven. Provide space in your heart to forgive and offer your wife opportunities to make amends. Support her through setbacks, whether in business or personal life, empowering her to rebuild and grow.

5. EDUCATION

Some men and cultures undervalue women’s education, assuming it’s unnecessary. However, an educated wife can make more informed decisions and contribute positively to the home and children’s upbringing. Encourage her personal and career advancement, as an educated woman adds value not only to your children but also to your family’s future and any business endeavours.

6. FINANCIAL SUPPORT

It is humorously stated that a man’s duty is to make money and a woman’s is to spend it. Financial support is crucial to women. Don’t be mean to your wife in the area of finances. Empower her economically, teaching her financial management and avoiding unnecessary expenditures. Ensure your financial contributions reflect mutual love, care, and attention.

Counselove Abeiku Okai

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