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1) PHYSICAL ABUSE
If he shows himself to be abusive, he slaps you, shoves you when he is angry, aunty, run for your life.
Don’t stay in any Relationship and be enduring violence,
Marriage is designed to be enjoyed, not endured.
if he has started beating you up now, is it when he has now paid bride piece he will change?
He tells you he loves you, but that he has a temper issue that’s why he keeps hitting you, aunty he doesn’t need a relationship, he needs a psychiatrist.
2) EMOTIONAL ABUSE.
Don’t marry a Man who makes you feel like you don’t deserve to be loved, a whole you that Jesus died for on the cross because of how much he loves you.
Don’t marry a Man who makes you feel depressed, sad and unworthy of happiness.
Any man who can’t respect your emotions, condemns you for being angry, happy, sad, emotional, is not the Man for you.
A real man will allow you express your emotions and not judge or mock you for it.
3) NARCISSISM
A Man who is so enveloped in himself, who can’t stop thinking and talking about himself will give you high blood pressure in marriage.
A man who makes everything about the relationship to be about him, what he wants, how he wants it, when he wants it, this is a toxic man.
You CAN’T be happy marrying such a Man.
A Relationship/Marriage is about two people, not one.
4) PROMISCUITY
Don’t marry a Man who can’t stick to one lady.
He even told you that he has a side chic, but it is you that he loves and will marry, and you are happy.. I pity you Ma.
Any Man who is not disciplined and self controlled to stick to one lady while single will end up an adulterer later in marriage.
Marriage doesn’t cure promiscuity. Don’t think he will change after marriage, he MAY, he MAY NOT…. Don’t go out marriage gambling about things like that.
DON’T MARRY HIM IF HE SAYS THESE THINGS
1) I’M MANAGING YOU
Aunty, don’t marry a Man who tells you he is managing you, when you are bringing favor from God to his